tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post8747272887733200919..comments2023-04-02T03:12:23.266-06:00Comments on Tales of the Phoenix: The Reading #2Phoebehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07668069274859889749noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-9533485856479571162009-07-12T21:55:56.065-06:002009-07-12T21:55:56.065-06:00Hi Cutie,
I am so sad reading this post because of...Hi Cutie,<br />I am so sad reading this post because of how it makes me feel about my spirit baby. <br /><br />I am glad to know your spirit baby is still with you. I wish I knew what was the special circumstance or requirement that would make it feel right for her to come to you physically. <br /><br />Hi spirit baby. Maybe you know what is here on this blog. I hope you come to mommy soon so you can start a marvelous life. <br /><br />hugs!Josée Martenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12774124942554313863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-39630100503338606072009-07-05T20:26:24.014-06:002009-07-05T20:26:24.014-06:00I wish I knew the answer as to how to get her to y...I wish I knew the answer as to how to get her to you. I'm glad she is still with you, but am sorry that you both are grieving so deeply right now. That helpless, hopeless feeling is a hard one to shake. I'm sitting with you, listening and waiting for whatever is next. Hugs.Lost in Spacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07027117135940864685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-72120413819564035642009-07-04T11:48:50.322-06:002009-07-04T11:48:50.322-06:00I am sure your baby knows and senses that you love...I am sure your baby knows and senses that you love her. Sending you peace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-4645870331381666862009-07-04T11:11:04.592-06:002009-07-04T11:11:04.592-06:00Ugh, I'm sorry your struggling right now. It ...Ugh, I'm sorry your struggling right now. It is so hard. I do agree with Lavender's comment, sometimes letting go and just being is the way to get the energy flowing again in a positive direction. It almost feels like the opposite of what you need to do. I always grapple with feeling the need to control, to do things to help me move forward, but I also know that I need to let go at times too. The elusive balance, I guess.Piehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07331859341593997811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-6371445642573059062009-07-04T07:01:44.955-06:002009-07-04T07:01:44.955-06:00Phoebe, I'm sorry for your sadness. You and I...Phoebe, I'm sorry for your sadness. You and I are the same age and I know it's so difficult to let go of your own eggs - it feels like defeat. Thankfully, I had a relatively easy time at donor eggs but that's rare and I understand. <br /><br />I guess, you have to try with your eggs until YOU are ready to stop.<br /><br />Keep up the good work improving your fertility and I'll be keeping my fingers crossed and my eyes glued to your blog when you're cycling at big fancy clinic.Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18288560043939554132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-24267205999738997872009-07-03T13:23:21.688-06:002009-07-03T13:23:21.688-06:00"there is nothing I can do at this point.&quo..."there is nothing I can do at this point."<br /><br />I find that the hardest thing to do is to completely surrender. And, ironically, surrendering is what makes things flow again.<br /><br />Hugs, Phoebe.Lori Lavender Luzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15394441222262940632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-44377183502274212932009-07-03T08:29:13.813-06:002009-07-03T08:29:13.813-06:00Thanks for your kind words. Thinking of you and ho...Thanks for your kind words. Thinking of you and hoping your baby will find you soon.Wishing 4 Onehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13569405415176468436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-41335608840156304922009-07-03T08:06:43.649-06:002009-07-03T08:06:43.649-06:00Glad that you met with Walter - and that she is st...Glad that you met with Walter - and that she is still with you - I am sure part of the sadness that you feel is her sadness that she could not make the move from spirit world to ours during the last cycle (who knows the reason - but - it maybe for any number of reasons - perhaps it was a boy embryo and she would like to be a girl - or it may not have been healthy enough...). I think about this stuff a lot (my inlaws starting trying to have my husband 5 years before he showed up! But here is the kicker - if he was born 5 years earlier we would have never got together - so sometimes it really has nothing to do with you or magic - but just timing that is all).<br />Hugs to you - perhaps we can take the big plunge together in the fall.Nadinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08219960725085412879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-78552765738671138772009-07-03T07:04:50.726-06:002009-07-03T07:04:50.726-06:00Sweet Georgia, I actually asked Walter some questi...Sweet Georgia, I actually asked Walter some questions about this, if I'm understanding the meaning of your comment. I did not get any indication that our spirit baby would come through adoption. She would prefer if she came through Magic and I, but she would accept donor eggs. We are not quite there yet with donor eggs though.Phoebehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07668069274859889749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-77176887332614113792009-07-03T06:56:42.854-06:002009-07-03T06:56:42.854-06:00Phoebe- That's a heck of a lot of pressure to ...Phoebe- That's a heck of a lot of pressure to be putting on yourself. As long as you have an open heart, your spirit baby will know you and be with you. How she enters your life may not be through the usual route, but she will come into your life.<br /><br />Sending hugs to you.Momasitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02687149140980965721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-25419812115634775922009-07-03T06:44:05.390-06:002009-07-03T06:44:05.390-06:00Beautiful Mess, no that is not it. I didn't wa...Beautiful Mess, no that is not it. I didn't want to post the details of the reading, but it really has nothing to do with me. She does want to be our child.Phoebehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07668069274859889749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-400986193010342577.post-85136306122690279232009-07-03T01:12:15.442-06:002009-07-03T01:12:15.442-06:00Is it possible that your spirit baby is still with...Is it possible that your spirit baby is still with you becuase you're not ready to let her go? I don't want to hurt your feelings or sound crass, but you're still grieving and part of grieving is holding onto what could have been. I hope that makes sense and it didn't offend you.<br />Sending you lots of peace and LOTS of love.<br />*HUGS*Beautiful Messhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02425541240465474148noreply@blogger.com